Stop the Fighting. Feel Heard Again. Rebuild the Emotional Safety Your Relationship Is Missing.

Work with a couples therapist who helps you slow conflict, understand what’s actually happening underneath the fights, and rebuild emotional safety without blame or shame.

Is This Your Relationship Right Now?

Most couples who find me online are not here for “maintenance.” They are here because something feels like it is breaking. You might recognize yourselves in some of this:

You keep having the same fight in different costumes. Nothing ever really resolves.

One of you feels ignored, unloved, or disrespected, while the other feels constantly criticized or never good enough.

You have lost emotional or sexual intimacy and do not know how to get it back without a huge blowup.

There has been betrayal, secrecy, or broken trust, and simple “communication tips” feel laughably small compared to the pain you are in.

You have tried therapy before, but it felt too slow, too soft, or you left feeling like nothing actually changed.

If that is you, my work is built for exactly this kind of relationship. I specialize in complex, high conflict, high pain marriages and long term partnerships.

How My Couples Counseling is Different

What does working with me actually feel like? I am not a “smile and ask how that makes you feel” therapist. Here is how I work:

I will interrupt you when necessary.

When you start running the same script that has never worked, I jump in and redirect, so you do not waste your time or money re-enacting the same fight in my office.

I use real world tools, not vague theory.

I pull from evidence based methods and my own frameworks like The Bridge Index™ to diagnose where the relationship is breaking down and give you step by step ways to repair it.

I am quite comfortable in the deep end.

Affairs, sexual issues, addiction, rage, years of resentment. All of it is just a my normal day at work. You do not have to edit or sugarcoat anything here. I've dealt with everything.

I push for both change and accountability.

I give homework, and micro commitments designed to shift the dynamic every single week. You will know exactly what you are working on between sessions.

If you want a counselor who will challenge you, advocate for your marriage, and tell you the truth gently but directly, we will probably be a great fit.

Real Couples, Real Breakthroughs

Hear from some real clients who have worked with Dr. Jon Directly

"It’s the first time someone helped us feel safe enough to be real. Dr. Jon made honesty feel safer than pretending."

Vanessa & Tommy

Together 3 years

"I used to think counseling was just talking and venting about stuff. With Jon, it felt like waking up to the real issues we never faced before."

Aimee & Jerome

Together 6 years

"Dr. Jon made me feel understood without letting me hide. I’ve never met a counselor who balances empathy and truth like this."

Cindy & Devon

Together 22 years

“The difference is incredible. We’re finally communicating, there’s intimacy again, and for the first time in years I feel hopeful about us.”

Kenny

"We were on two different planets with horrible communications constantly hitting each other triggers. Dr. Jon was able to help before my husband wanted to participate."

Alexandra

"Dr. Jon saved us from calling off a wedding at the 25th hour. The stress really got to us and he was a life-saver at a key moment in our journey as a couple."

Kat

“It’s a miracle… 500% better. Not just my marriage, but my dignity and self-respect. Everything just feels real again now.”

Rob

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Therapists are everywhere. Actual experts who live and breathe relationships are extremely rare. I have grown an audience of over 1,000,000 followers across Instagram & Facebook (@communicationjon) by saying what most therapists are afraid to say and by helping couples cut through the bullshit and get honest about what is really going on.

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Over 1,000,000 Followers across Facebook & Instagram

Specializing in rapid change for my clients

A compassionate but no-nonsense approach

Meet with Dr. Jon Dabach

Stop Guessing. Start Healing.

Schedule a consultation with Dr. Jon and experience firsthand how your relationship can change under the guidance of a seasoned expert who combines compassion with proven insight. He’ll help you understand what’s really happening in your marriage in ways no one has explained before. This is your opportunity to start turning things around.

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(818) 514-0138 | [email protected]
23901 Calabasas Road, Suite 1078, Calabasas, CA 91302