Stop Fighting. Start Actually Understanding Each Other.

High impact couples counseling with Dr. Jon Dabach in Calabasas or online worldwide.

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  • Over 1,000,000 Followers across Facebook & Instagram

  • Free Assessment with your consultation for limited time

  • Trusted by 3,000+ Couples

High impact couples counseling with Dr. Jon Dabach in Calabasas or online worldwide. If you are stuck in the same painful arguments, feeling lonely in your own home, or wondering how much longer you can keep going like this, you are in the right place.

I am Dr. Jon Dabach, a couples counselor and relationship coach who has spent nearly a decade and a half helping thousands of couples pull their marriages back from the edge. My style is direct, active, and deeply compassionate. I will not sit there and nod for 50 minutes and let you drown. I step in, teach, interrupt bad patterns, and give you concrete tools right in session.

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You have probably seen me before

Therapists are everywhere. Actual experts who live and breathe relationships are extremely rare. I have grown an audience of over 1,000,000 followers across Instagram & Facebook (@communicationjon) by saying what most therapists are afraid to say and by helping couples cut through the bullshit and get honest about what is really going on.

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  • Specializing in rapid change for my clients

  • A compassionate but no-nonsense approach

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Is This Your Relationship Right Now?

Most couples who find me online are not here for “maintenance.” They are here because something feels like it is breaking. You might recognize yourselves in some of this:

  • You keep having the same fight in different costumes. Nothing ever really resolves.

  • One of you feels ignored, unloved, or disrespected, while the other feels constantly criticized or never good enough.

  • You have lost emotional or sexual intimacy and do not know how to get it back without a huge blowup.

  • There has been betrayal, secrecy, or broken trust, and simple “communication tips” feel laughably small compared to the pain you are in.

  • You have tried therapy before, but it felt too slow, too soft, or you left feeling like nothing actually changed.

If that is you, my work is built for exactly this kind of relationship. I specialize in complex, high conflict, high pain marriages and long term partnerships.

How My Couples Counseling is Different

What does working with me actually feel like? I am not a “smile and ask how that makes you feel” therapist. Here is how I work:

I will interrupt you when necessary. 

When you start running the same script that has never worked, I jump in and redirect, so you do not waste your time or money re-enacting the same fight in my office.

I use real world tools, not vague theory.

I pull from evidence based methods and my own frameworks like The Bridge Index™ to diagnose where the relationship is breaking down and give you step by step ways to repair it.

I am quite comfortable in the deep end.

Affairs, sexual issues, addiction, rage, years of resentment. All of it is just a my normal day at work. You do not have to edit or sugarcoat anything here. I've dealt with everything.

I push for both change and accountability.

I give homework, and micro commitments designed to shift the dynamic every single week. You will know exactly what you are working on between sessions.

If you want a counselor who will challenge you, advocate for your marriage, and tell you the truth gently but directly, we will probably be a great fit.

Free Bonus: The Bridge Index™ Assessment

When you book your free consultation today, you and your partner will receive complimentary access to The Bridge Index™, my proprietary assessment that has already been used by over 50,000 couples. Normally $47, you will get it free as a bonus with your consultation. The Bridge Index™ helps you:

  • Identify your top 3 conflict zones

  • Understand your unique relationship patterns across 10 key areas

  • Get a map of where connection is breaking down and where it's still strong

You will each complete the assessment, and then we will review the results together so you finally have language and clarity for what is really going on.

How The Bridge Index™ Works

Three simple steps to relationship clarity

01

Answer 60 Key Questions

Share honest insights about communication, intimacy, trust, conflict resolution, and 6 other critical connection areas.

02

Get Your Detailed Report

Receive a comprehensive analysis that maps your relationship's strengths and pinpoints the exact areas causing conflict.

03

Follow Your Action Plan

Use personalized, proven strategies to address your specific challenges and rebuild the connection you're missing.

The 10 Areas of Connection

The Bridge Index™ measures what matters most in your relationship

  • Social

    How you connect with friends and social circles

  • Financial

    Money management and financial alignment

  • Parenting

    Your approach to raising children together

  • Teamwork

    How you collaborate and support each other

  • Mentorship

    How you guide and encourage growth

  • Sexual

    Your physical intimacy and sexual connection

  • Familial

    Relationships with extended family members

  • Ideology

    Shared values, beliefs, and worldviews

  • Affection

    Emotional warmth and physical touch

  • Reliance

    Trust and dependability in the relationship

  • Expert-Developed Assessment

Created by Dr. Jon Dabach

Dr. Jon Dabach has spent nearly fifteen years as a couples counselor and relationship coach, helping restore and transform over 3,000 relationships.


Grounded in time-tested principles, he developed this assessment to quickly uncover the deeper patterns and conflicts that keep couples stuck, allowing the work to move faster and with greater clarity.

3,000+

Relationships Saved

1M+

Followers Online

  • “The Bridge Index™ is the result of 15 years of clinical experience. A precise tool to help couples find their way back to each other.”

Ready To Talk Before Things Get Worse?

Most couples wait years longer than they should before getting help. By the time they walk into counseling, resentment is deep, intimacy is gone, and one person has already started to emotionally check out. Don’t be another statistic.

Pick a time in the calendar below that works for you. We will hop on zoom for 15-20 minutes and go over your assessment, learn what's going on in your relationship and see if this is a good fit. No pressure. No Sales. Just clarity if this is the right next step for you and advice on how to move forward.

Real Couples, Real Breakthroughs

Hear from some real clients who have worked with Dr. Jon Directly

“The difference is incredible. We’re finally communicating, there’s intimacy again, and for the first time in years I feel hopeful about us.”

Kenny

"We were on two different planets with horrible communications constantly hitting each other triggers. Dr. Jon was able to help before my husband wanted to participate."

Alexandra

"Dr. Jon saved us from calling off a wedding at the 25th hour. The stress really got to us and he was a life-saver at a key moment in our journey as a couple."

Kat

“It’s a miracle… 500% better. Not just my marriage, but my dignity and self-respect. Everything just feels real again now.”

Rob

"I was lucky that we met and I worked with you before I had divorce papers handed to me. For anyone listening don't wait until it's too late."

Sal

"We were thinking of divorce when we first reached out to Jon and now we have tools and frameworks that have turned it all around. It's a night and day difference."

Nicole

"It’s the first time someone helped us feel safe enough to be real. Dr. Jon made honesty feel safer than pretending."

Vanessa & Tommy

Together 3 years

"I used to think counseling was just talking and venting about stuff. With Jon, it felt like waking up to the real issues we never faced before."

Aimee & Jerome

Together 6 years

"Dr. Jon made me feel understood without letting me hide. I’ve never met a counselor who balances empathy and truth like this."

Cindy & Devon

Together 22 years

"Jon didn’t just fix our arguments, he taught us how to show up for each other emotionally. That was the breakthrough."

Nancy & Scott

Together 27 years

"I’ve never had someone call me out with so much compassion. Dr. Jon made it hurt in a good way. It healed in a real way."

Ivan & Felicia

Together 12 years

"Jon helped us go deeper than fights and symptoms. He revealed the patterns, fear, and love underneath it all. Saved our marriage more than once."

Irene & George

Together 30 years

"I walked in angry and hopeless. I walked out feeling safe, accountable, and more honest than I’ve ever been with Dr. Jon."

Po & Anwar

Together 9 years

"Dr. Jon helped me understand my wife’s pain instead of just defending mine. It changed the way we talk and listen and she's so much happier."

Jamie & Isaac

Together 2 years

"I finally felt seen, challenged, and guided. Jon didn’t take sides, he took truth. I've already recommended him to everyone I know."

Diana & Skip

Together 18 years

Meet with Dr. Jon Dabach

Stop Guessing. Start Healing.

Schedule a FREE consultation with Dr. Jon and experience firsthand how your relationship can change under the guidance of a seasoned expert who combines compassion with proven insight. He’ll help you understand what’s really happening in your marriage in ways no one has explained before. This is your opportunity to start turning things around.

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